it seems to me that the moment i announced that i was pregnant, i ceased to be Tarius and became a cargo ship for this child.  most people don’t bother to ask how i am doing but rather how’s the baby? um… if i’m not ok, then the baby’s not ok.  it seems all of the questions about my well-being are being centered around my stomach. if i grab my stomach, the automatic question now is “did the baby kick?” nobody seems to think that i could be suffering from an upset stomach or anything of the sort. if i say that i am tired, it’s automatically because i am creating new life.. not the fact that just worked 12 hours.

yes i appreciate the love and the concern, but i did not cease to exist at the moment i became pregnant. I AM STILL HERE!!! now if i start ignoring people who don’t have the decency to inquire about me then i’d be wrong and oversensitive. how about the fact that you are wrong and not sensitive at all? think about it.

Tarius